I am listening to the radio and the topic of choice is to call up and admit/bad-mouth your partner -referenced from a man from North China (specifically) who sued his wife (and won) for giving birth to an ugly child and accused her of an affair (at which point she pointed out she had plastic surgery -don't understand how he could have not know about that in the first place).

"chubby, balding, I used to go out with some rather good looking people, I don't actually wake up next to him hehe, hes not really attractive -he's not great at all" were a few of the typical comments made.

WHY.

Since when is it right to a) state that your partner is aesthetically unpleasing and b) giggle and advertise this.
If you're not attracted to them, don't go out with them -it's simple. There is no need to put your loved one down behind their back. I can just imagine how immensely they love you and it would break their heart that the one that is supposed to accept them for who they are are making such remarks, it's disgusting.

I despise it -shows how simple some people are.

au revoir. xo